Did you feel unseen or unheard at home?
Did you have a parent or caretaker who denied your reality?
Did you have a parent or caretaker who did not model appropriate boundaries?
Were you told that you can't or shouldn't feel certain emotions?
Did you live with someone who could not regulate their emotions?
Have a parent more focused on outward personal appearances and family appearances versus being authentic to life at home?
Did a parent or caretaker swear at you, insult you, or put you down on a frequent basis.
Was it common for a parent or caretaker humiliate you or act in a way that made you afraid that you might be physically hurt?
Did you find yourself in situations in which a parent or family member didn’t look out for you, feel close to your, or support you?
Did a parent or caretaker push, grab, slap, or throw something at you or ever hit you so hard that you had marks or were injured?
Did you often or very often feel that no one in your family loved you or thought you were important or special?
Were your parents were too drunk or high to take care of you or take you to the doctor if you needed it?
Did you find yourself in a situations in which you didn’t have enough to eat, had to wear dirty clothes and had no one to protect you?
Was a biological parent ever lost to you through death, divorce, abandonment, or other reasons?
Was a parent or caretaker: often or very often pushed, grabbed, slapped, or had something thrown at her/him?
Was a parent or caretaker sometimes, often, or very often kicked, bitten, hit with a fist, or hit with something hard?
Did you experience being repeatedly hit over at least a few minutes or threatened with a gun or knife?
Did you witness someone else being repeatedly hit over at least a few minutes or threatened with a gun or knife?
Did you live with anyone who was a problem drinker or alcoholic, or who used street drugs
Was a household member depressed or mentally ill, or did a household member attempt suicide?
